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When I read or hear any variation of the above quotes, I cringe and die a little inside.

Why have we become people who willingly and voluntarily allow someone else to control the state of our happiness? A relationship is not meant to make you happy. To put an expectation on someone else that their commitment to you is a commitment to keep you in a constant state of happiness, is fucking lunacy.

How to stop looking for happiness in others and learn to create it yourself

A person is not your other or better half. A man or woman is not a BFF pendant, where they have the other half of your heart.

Our happiness or our wholeness is not outside of ourselves. There is no finding happiness.

7 keys for finding true love and happiness

This is not a scavenger hunt. You feel happy. You feel it, just as much as you feel sadness or anger or frustration or attraction.

Stop putting these expectations on romantic relationships. In a relationship, you grow. You come up against your own beliefs about love and commitment and vulnerability and resolve and strength.

And a relationship, because of the intensity of feelings, presents to you your most raw and vulnerable. You get down to the heart of yourself. Love is higher expressions of yourself.

Love is expansion. Love is openness and vulnerability and rawness and nakedness. Love is facing your darkest parts of yourself. Love is being ashamed one day and liberated the next.

Love is infrequently pure, unadulterated ecstasy and happiness. Do not make it contingent on Sexy ladies want nsa Wheat Ridge acceptance of you or their feelings for you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth.

A relationship will not make you happy (so stop looking for happiness there)

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