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I waffled on whether I should write about this struggle with confronting adulthood at such a late age, but ultimately I think the key to interesting writing is being truthful.
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If I want to get laid, I know I can. Hopefully, as I get my shit together, I can enter the real, adult dating world and perhaps look for a legitimate partner. But than I wonder is it better to meet someone when you have nothing who is there for the ascent, or someone who is waiting at the finish line for the winner?
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I definitely understand why men constantly leading with sex bothers you.
But please try to understand this point although will never truly understand no matter how much we explain it. Sorry to yell.